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1. If I have a problem with another person, I will go to him privately. |
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2. If someone has a problem with me, I want him to come to me privately and will try to be open when he comes. |
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3. If someone has a problem with me, and comes to you, send the person to me. (I’ll do the same for you.) |
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4. I will seek to work within clear structures, so that decisions are seen as just. |
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5. When falsely accused, I will speak truth but will ot seek to defend myself, as tht generally will put someone else down. |
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Discuss
1. Which of the above rules do we generally live by? Which do we need to observe more closely?
2. What rules would you suggest we add to this list?