Before all else there must be groundwork done so the facilitator has knowledge of the city/cities and the Christian organizations within them.
This stage is absolutely critical in the life of a partnership. It cannot be underscored too heavily that by calling a formation meeting for a partnership too soon you may destroy the real possibilities for long-range cooperation. Patience, mutual awareness and quiet consensus-building is the key.
Once the facilitator feels the exploration stage is nearing an end, the highest priority should be to develop a sense of the various agency leaders' interest in meeting together. Do they think there is any value in meeting, at least once, to share vision, concerns, and information about ministry in the area? There may be a natural reticence to agreeing to such a meeting as they may -
So the partnership facilitator must be completely transparent. "It's true, the reason I've come to talk with you is that I believe there may be great value for the Kingdom if ministries in the area could find ways to collaborate, coordinate and communicate more fully. However, this meeting is genuinely exploratory. There is no hidden agenda. Our sole purpose will be to review the current situation in this area; look at present ministries and challenges that face us; and, explore whether there are priority items that might benefit from collaboration.
If there is any decision to go forward in any kind of cooperative 'next steps', the participants themselves will make it. My role is simply to facilitate the process and to encourage the most effective communication between the various ministries." By taking such a position, the facilitator must of course be genuinely prepared for the first meeting to fail. There must be no manipulation of the process. If there is, any outcomes will have short-term value, and the facilitator will be seen to lack integrity - hardly a way to build trust - the most critical element in partnership development!
This sort of pre-meeting process minimizes the 'surprises' for a facilitator, increases his/her understanding, enhances their relationship and credibility with the main players, and goes a long way toward establishing at least a modest level of consensus before the meeting ever starts.
After much prayer, preparation and anticipation, the first meeting of partner agencies is ready to begin.