Score

Score

1

I have a good relationship with my family

2

I plan ahead to spend time/call my family regularly

3

I have worked through tensions with my father/mother

4

I maintain a real home environment for myself not just a place to sleep

5

I am content to remain single

6

I am at peace about looking for a husband/wife.  I have trusted God to provide a godly partner for me and am careful not to make soul connections with non-believers of the other sex. Or I am committed to remain single for the sake of pioneering the Kingdom

7

Apart from natural (God-given) loneliness, I consider myself a whole person

8

I utilise my singleness to give greater energy into the Kingdom of God

9

I utilize my lack of one love to more deeply care for many people

10

I have a circle of friends who give me emotional support when I am in need

11

I have group contexts where I can meet people from whom I meet reasonably expect to find a mate if that is the way the Lord leads

12

I do not engage in counseling/ministry on my own at deep levels with singles of the other sex, and avoid soul ties that are inappropriate

13

I have learned to treat the other sex not as objects but as real people

14

I am making responsible plans for care of my elders, my future family and myself

15

I can give and receive love

16

I have memorized 20 passages from the word to use when desires overwhelm me

17

I have an accountable relationship with a peer or mentor that I can call on when faced with temptations

18

I know which situations to avoid and which to run from

19

I am careful to not be in situations of being alone in compromising contexts with someone of the other sex

20

I am often playing with children, so that if I have children in the future I will be a loving parent

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